Let's look at your statement here a minute: "The fact that many conservative outlets allow blame to place on our current administration is very much part of the problem not part of the solution."

1. What "fact" are you referring to that anyone is "allowing" blame to be placed on the current administration? If you watch any network news, CNN, MSNBC, even Fox News, all you see and hear is the current President blaming the previous administration, not the other way around. There are certainly some pundits on Fox News and conservative talk radio shows (but NONE of the other television or radio networks) that believe that the time for blame is well past, and that the President needs to start acting and stop blaming. I cannot help but agree. Blaming is not getting anything done, it is a waste of time.
2. As for the previous administration being to blame for all the ills we are suffering, well, that is just blind ignorance. The first bailout, to the banks, was something I cannot condone. Businesses should succeed or fail on their own merit. Greed should not be rewarded. The greed of the few that infected those banks should have been allowed to suffer the consequences of their actions, with all board members, large amount stock holders, and high-paid executives having to lose a good portion of their personal investment (and/or pay). It is unconstitutional for the government of the United States to nationalize any private or publicly held business.
3. Along with the above, the currentadministration has done far more damage with the TARP than the previous administration did in its last days. The currentadministration has intentionally acted AGAINST the Constitution of the United States (by the way, that is know as unconstitutional, which is otherwise know as illegal or criminal, and anyone found guilty of any of these crimes can be charged, convicted, and put in prison. If guilty, the President can be impeached and imprisoned.
4. While I do not think that the blame game is a so much a part of the problem as a hindrance to the solution, I agree that action must be taken unilaterally.
5. As for starting this mess, you'll have to specify which mess. Some of the messes we are in can certainly be blamed directly on the previous administration, and President Bush had the dignity of stating that "The buck stops here." No such dignity with President Obama. He is quick to take credit, but even faster to lay the blame on someone else. The entire country is sick of the blame game on both sides. When is he going to stop blaming and get to work with the issues we want him to handle, not the socialist, power-building issues he has spent his first two years on.

"The solution isn't necessarily to vote republican (or democrats) into office, the solution is to get the ones that are there working together to solve our issues."

1. Yes, and no. The only solution we have that is legal is to vote in people we trust (read hope we can trust), to act on the will of the people. Not the will of their party, not the will of the President or of their own greed for power or money. We have seen, time and again, for close to 100 years, that our elected officials go into office for a career, not as a duty or responsibility. By permitting senators and representatives to have unlimited terms, they build power, and concern themselves with getting re-elected over the will of the people. Each committee they belong to pays a salary over and above the salary of their elected position, and they do not even have to attend many (if any) of the meetings to be paid. All of these things must stop, to get representatives OF THE PEOPLE. From what I have seen, both sides have had their share of good men and women. Unfortunately, it would seem the "share" of good people is just too small. When our elected officials follow party lines instead of listening to their constituents, they are breaking their oath to us. This country is a Democratic Republic, where the people elect officials to legislate on their behalf. Legislators cannot do this without listening. If your legislator is not listening, find someone who will to replace them. I have seen almost everyone in Washington in the last couple of years blatantly ignoring the constitution and the will of the people. From President Obama on down, they have publicly stated that the Constitution is old, not valid in our times, a changing thing, or something they do not have to follow. Do any of them know the Constitution they are supposed to be following? If so, are they willfully engaging in illegal acts? Are they creating "unconstitutional laws" intentionally? Please, I beg of you all, get hold of every recent legislation and read them all yourselves. Get help as needed, but see for yourself that something is seriously wrong. Even before Obama, there are plenty of other unnecessary and unconstitutional laws that have been passed. I think the Patriot Act is one of the most dangerous laws ever passed, and we permitted it because of fear. If we don't repeal all of these laws, we WILL regret it.

"The extremism on both side, absolutely has to stop."

1. I agree. As far as I know, the right wing extremists are all very vocal, and there are some pretty violent ones out there. I can say that none of the "Tea Party" groups are extremists. All are non-violent. All are 100% above-board and legal in every action they take. Taxes are paid by these groups, rather than try to play the games of non-profit politics. They immediately throw out violent protesters, bigots, or anyone else who is trying to engender fear or hatred. Both parties are afraid of the Tea Parties because they represent real Americans who want to put control of the government back into the hands of the people ("of the people, by the people, for the people," not "of the masses, by the few, for the few"). Both parties have power-hungry, career politicians at their core. They may say they hold to certain principles, but their actions have shown us all the opposite is true. Most politicians are lawyers. Most lawyers are liars. It stands to reason that most politicians are liars and cannot be trusted.